Don’t Just Stand There, 8 Steps to Make Things Happen

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Apr 182022
 

Has this ever happened to you?

You spend hours and hours working on a new process. You dot all the “I”s cross all the “T”s and then some how you still ended up doing it the same ole’ way.

You go to a fantastic seminar, you are all pumped up and excited, but then somehow all the stuff you learned just sits on your desk.

Or how about this one. You finally read that book that’s been sitting on your nightstand, it had great ideas in it and you see how you could do things a little bit differently to make some more cash. But time goes by, the book ends up on the shelf and you never implement any of those great ideas.

It’s like taking the time to research, test drive and buy a new car. Then parking that expensive, shinny new car in the garage and driving the old one.

Don’t leave your shinny new process in the garage to collect dust.

Here is a step-by-step system to get you implementing all your hard work.

Step 1: What’s in your way?
Determine what resistance there might be before you get started. Are you a procrastinator? Do you need a new web guy? Did you just set up a schedule where your best work needs happen when you’re taking your kids to school? Set yourself up for success by dealing with barriers and issues before you get started.

Step 2: Commit to Implement
It takes 21 days to form a habit. So commit to following your new process or plan for 21 days. Come on, that’s only 3 weeks. You can do anything for 3 weeks, right?

Step 3: The Proper Training
Give yourself or anyone working with you the proper training they need to in order to follow your process. Everyone (including you) should have all the tools they need and fully understand what needs to be done.

Step 4: Find a Place
Decide where you are going to keep your new process or plan. Do you have a book that you can keep next to you? I am a visual person so I physically tape a new process to the wall in front of me so I always see it. I had one client that saved her new process as her screen saver.

Step 5: Follow the Bouncing Boxes
Actually follow your plan or process. How do you know if it’s working if you don’t actually do it? Remember you committed to implement.

Step 6: Keep Track of What’s Working – And What’s Not
As you go along, make notes and keep records of things that you could streamline, delegate out or are not running as smoothly as you would like. You’ll use these notes later.

Step 7: Version 2
At the end of 21 days, go through those notes you’ve been making. Put your consultant’s hat on and see if there is anything that will make your process even better. Incorporate those changes into your process and voila, version 2.

Step 8: Count down to Launch
Pick a date when version 2 goes into action. On that date, start the implementation process over again and keep that ball rolling.

Now get out those new processes and start implementing.

© 2005 Beth Schneider. Want to reprint this article, feel free as long as you include the following: Beth Schneider, Chief Infopreneur of Process Prodigy, is a business process consultant who helps solo-entrepreneurs, small business owners and network marketers who want to systemize their business to increase profits, increase productivity and grow their business without having to give up the family oriented, flexible, balanced lifestyle they desire. Beth works one-on-one with her clients, offers home study courses, and teleclass boot camps. For more information visit http://www.ProcessProdigy.com and sign up for your FR+EE 5- Step Process Starter Kit and FR+EE Process Tips.

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Is This a Trend? Three Horrible Calls Reviewed

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Apr 172022
 

I’m asking for your tolerance in this column as I blow off steam about what appears to be a trend in telephone solicitation (it doesn’t even deserve the name telemarketing or telesales), at least in my experience over the past few weeks, that darkens the already-blackened eye of the image of inside sales reps (even professionals like you) as a collective group. Let’s look at these calls.

Awful Call Number One

I’ve been a subscriber to Sports Illustrated magazine since I was old enough to read. Received a call from a rep (unenthusiastically and poorly reading a script) who explained SI’s new book of the “Greatest Moments in Sports” or some such thing, full of photos, blah, blah, blah. She asked me no questions, asked for no response, and in her pitch she mentioned several times she was sending me the book. I repeat, she said she was sending me the book, and I hadn’t so much as grunted yet! She finally got to the next part:

“As a preferred subscriber, we will be sending you this book, and if you decide to keep it, it’s only $24.95. All I need to do is verify your address. (She recited it and I concurred.) We do accept all major credit cards, which will you be using?”

I said, “Let me get this right. You’re sending me a book. I didn’t ask for it, and you never did ask me if I wanted it, right.”

“Uhh, I guess.”

“Well, do what you want, but if you send it, I’ll consider it as a gift.”

Awful Call Number Two

The caller informed my assistant that she was with US West, my local phone company. I took the call, as I do all calls to me (can’t afford to miss potentially great material for this column, and seminars!)

“Hello, this is Service Operator Amber, with GLD Business Savings Plan and we’re going to be applying a 40% discount to all of your AT&T Lines. The service is free of charge since you’re a business, and it’s just an incentive to help you remain loyal to AT&T. I just need to verify your company name (I verified it), and what is your first and last name (I gave it to her). Ok, my computer records show that over a six month period you average a minimum of $20 a month in long distance, is that correct.?”

I questioned how she knew that, and she said, “It just came up on my computer.” Alrighty, then. “Now please hold and I’ll put you on line with Verifications, they’ll just ask you some questions and make sure your address is correct. This is an FCC regulation. Now let me explain, that when you hear the verifier say you’re giving your approval to convert your service to the GLD Savings Plan . . .”

I jumped in, “NO. I’m not doing that.”

“Uh, what they mean by that is if you’re receiving a 10% discount from AT&T it will be replaced by the 40% discount . . . it doesn’t mean you’re switching from AT&T because you’re still on the AT&T network, and you’re still billed by the AT&T bill manager.”

I asked her what would happen if I didn’t have AT&T (which she didn’t bother to ask). She explained that I’d still be eligible for 40% off my “standard rate,” which she didn’t know or ask, but kept referring to 40% off. I’ll spare you the rest because this call sickens me. I did get a supervisor on the phone and blasted her for what I consider an unethical approach. She lamely tried to defend it, but finally admitted she was with a service agency in Missouri contracted by GLD to place these calls using this script.

Awful Call Number Three

After identifying herself and her company, the caller said,
“I’m calling today to tell you about a new low-cost way for your company to attract a whole new market of potential customers over the Internet.” Actually a pretty darn good opening statement so far. Got my attention. But the warm fuzzy feelings didn’t last long.

“What QuickPages will do for you is set you up with a home page with a web address unique to your business. You can include up to 200 words to describe your business. Now, let me just verify your company name (notice the trend here from the other calls?) And you would be the contact name on this account?

Unbelievable. A presentation and close, two sentences after the opening, without any questions of me. (I guess that might be termed call efficiency?) At some point here she mentioned the cost of the service, which, by the way was overpriced for hosting just one web page, and she was going into the final details of how I would be billed, and so on.

Finally, I stopped her.

“You just gave an entire presentation, assumed a sale, and asked me no questions whatsoever other than my company name and address. And you’ve treated me like an Internet illiterate. How do you know that I don’t already have an extensive web site?”

She mumbled and bumbled a bit. I eased up on her, mainly because she admitted she was just reading her script, and she sounded honest. She even read the script back to me so I could tape record it. Again, this was a telemarketing service agency, Future-call, contracted to do the phoning for the client.

What to Do?

What’s up with “salespeople” reading from these scripts, and as with each of these cases assuming a sale? It seems to be that this is so inane the approach would eradicate itself due to lack of success. And do the people at these service agencies and client companies think prospects are so stupid that they’ll fall for stuff like this?

Fellow professional, I hope you’re as outraged by these tactics as I am. It wouldn’t bother me if no one other than the offending culprits were affected, but we’re all lumped in whenever the words “telemarketing,” “annoying,” and “scams,” are mentioned in the same conversation. People are getting calls like these every day, and it makes it tougher for you, the skilled salesperson, using a customer-oriented consultative approach, to have an opportunity to speak with someone who has an open mind.

What to do? Aside from continuing using your professional approach on calls, I suggest jumping on these people when you get calls like this; not the poor callers who are reading from the scripts, but the agency managers and client companies who approve and create such damaging garbage.

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HOMEMADE CARP FISHING BAITS – Secret ‘Edges’ Over Shop Bought Baits and Bait Development History!

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Apr 162022
 

+ You really can catch more big fish on your homemade boilies and ‘dough’ paste baits! Here’s how…

Carp baits vary tremendously in quality around the world!

To such an extent that some baits contain ingredients and flavours of types and quantities that can even be repellant to carp after a period of time of introduction into a particular carp water!

So much of the reason for this lies in the nutritional value and health and energy benefits you give to your fish in return for them eating your bait, and this can have massive implications regarding your catch results over time.

The fact that the majority of angler’s use popular, shop – bought ready – made boilies, and bait mixes, can actually give you a massive unseen edge!

‘Shop-bought’ baits will only provide certain levels and of nutrients, making it easier to catch carp on your own designed bait providing you aim to make a bait with different ingredients, or perhaps of better quality or percentage in your bait to the known shop – bought baits being used on your water.

For example, if fishmeal baits are working well on your water, why not make your homemade baits with far higher quantities of quality pre-digested fish and shellfish proteins? Or really raise the level of protein regarding the soluble attraction activity of your bait – add loads more green lip mussel extract, corn steep liquor, pre-digested liver powder, squid liver extract etc.

To understand bait from a commercial producer’s perspective; he must make a profit, so if he can, he will use the minimum of expensive but most often most highly concentrated nutritional / effective carp attractional ingredients, and ‘bulk – up’ their commercial shop bait with less effective ingredients over the long term.

This as a major weakness you can exploit over EVERY angler who slavishly uses shop – bought baits for fishing and who wrongly expect exceptional results every session due to using these baits.

Not only is the nutrition / attraction factors limiting and very ‘standardized’ in many ways, but so are the ways they are used by anglers too. Also commercially made baits are produced by machine and most often result in identical shapes and densities. This is not always in your interests if you wish to target those big wary carp that have been absolutely conditioned every day to eating anglers’ shop – baits and managing to not get hooked on them.

Many big fish actually eat your free baits perhaps 4 or 5 days or longer after you have gone home, when they have been leached of anything that may be associated as a threat to the carp. (Perhaps certain flavours or types of attractors within the bait.)

Most anglers have heard of using baits with no flavours in, or using baits that have been pre – soaked in lake water to mimic ‘safe’ free baits, that abound in pressured carp lakes after a busy weekend.

Also, one important point to appreciate is that if a carp senses a bait, but does not need more of it to fulfil its dietary needs, its brain will not register a feeding response!

That is why being aware of all the carp’s potential dietary deficiencies and providing for them, is so vital because you will achieve takes owing to perhaps merely one ingredient and its benefit, at times when if this ingredient was absent, then the carp will simply ignore your bait!

A carp’s individual metabolism, programmed caution, mode of picking up hook baits and preferences for specific tastes, smells, eating experiences and so on, an individual carp may be easier to catch by exploiting this. Finding a bait it likes it can be landed repeatedly over long period of time, e.g. months or even years.

This shows that a winning formula does not need to be changed as often as the bait adverts would suggest! I know extremely successful anglers who have used the same basic base mix formula for decades And NEVER use flavors!

By using your own mix, you know for certain what ingredients and attractors certain fish prefer, gleaned from experience of past catches and why because YOU know the ingredients used in your own baits, while no-one else does! This gives you an incredibly powerful edge…

You can catch the same fish on the same basic bait mix in different parts of a large lake, at steadily larger weights, for years, because it wants and needs it, and has accepted it as ‘natural food’!!! Carp can learn just like dogs about certain actions and rewards, some beneficial and rewarding, others dangerous and stress inducing.

Wary, big fish have been caught TWICE on the same bait on the same day because they wanted and needed a certain bait so much at that point in time!

The most wary fish can eat your bait in confidence, in preference to shop-bought bait, even selectively ignoring adjacent baits! If a carp does not require the substances in your bait, it will not eat it.

In other words, when foods are available of every kind, to satisfy the carp’s natural needs, then if he doesn’t NEED your bait, most likely he won’t even register it as food, unless he’s ill, diseased, or mad! Heh Heh… And I’m sure many of us have direct experience of this extremely frustrating situation!

Commercially designed aquaculture feeds, and koi – enthusiast feeds, are rigorously, scientifically tested for optimal growth and health effects. If you want to see this for yourself there are many papers and articles on this subject; especially from sponsored Japanese research institutions and American universities.

It is complex stuff and it takes hours to extract information that is applicable to carp fishing bait formulation. (My research, I hope, will give you a clearer, in depth knowledge of a carp’s essential dietary needs you can apply in your bait design!)

Previously, as baits became more advanced, being based on information gleaned from scientific research, it was made clear that a ‘ high protein’ milk derivative bait would outfit a low protein cereal/bean based bait. Some of these baits had an assumed ‘biological nutritional value’ of up to 96 % ! These were based mainly on milk protein, milk, fish, shellfish and meat protein.

But science has shown that the majority of this protein is not synthesized to benefit the fish at all and is wasted! In fact, baits with a biological nutritional value (or ‘BNV’) of 30 % to 55 % or even lower, are just as effective.

Costs of milk proteins became uneconomical in the 1980s for anglers in the UK, and so anglers experimented much more with cheaper bulk ingredients, and their relative ratios to find success much more economically.

However, so – called high protein ‘BNV’ baits still out fished the low-protein, carbohydrate – based baits in the long run, far more consistently and effectively when it came to the really big fish. And this again proved the benefits of using a balanced nutrition theory bait, correct.

This theory stands the test of time; still today especially after decades of constant hard pressured carp fishing in the UK, where carp are seriously ‘clued – up’.

By ‘high protein’, I mean high – quality in terms of your bait’s amino acid profile, and other nutrient ingredients. When compared to a carbohydrate bait with a very low quality of these nutrients available. So when you see ‘high-protein’, don’t assume that 30 – 45% is low.

Semolina and wheat flour, 50 / 50 % mix, for example, may only contain a maximum of 10 % protein, if anywhere near that; it feels to us like the difference between eating pasta compared to stake. It’s like eating sugar; loads of quick energy benefit, but no essential nutritional essentials are being supplied for essential bodily rebuilding and survival.

You don’t hear about body – builders thriving on a high sugar diet (this can lead to diabetes among other poor diet effects), but on a high protein, ‘balanced nutritional profile’ diet where every dietary essential need is met.

Most Americans and anglers from countries where carp fishing has not yet become an extremely intensively competitive sport may quite rightly wonder; what all this fuss about bait and it’s quality is really all about, and question it’s necessity!

Even a simple ‘kitchen’ bait like a homemade corn flour dough, with added coke or canned sweet corn juice with catch all day and probably always will on most ‘low or no pressure’ carp waters, around the world!

A high quality boiled bait approach is not necessary on every water; not every carp has ever seen a boilie bait before, and many carp may not even recognise them as food items immediately!

And many waters are so over – stocked that there will never be enough natural food, nor anglers’ bait to supply their needs fully, and any bait from maggots to sweet corn, to bread will always catch their fare share of big fish, regardless of any nutritional needs among the fish population.

But on those hard – fished pressured waters where big fish have seen practically every boilied bait of every description before and been caught on them previously, they certainly do learn by association, both of the dangers and benefits of eating particular baits.

The ‘HNV’ theory baits have historically simply produced the biggest carp, the most consistently, where anglers are using varied baits of different qualities and designs from attractor baits to the most advanced highly digestible balanced ‘HNV’ baits. (On high angling pressure waters.)

Even where carp are being offered a range of ‘balanced nutritional value’ type shop – bought baits every day, some baits will tend to catch more bigger carp than other baits, and this is where the advantages of designing and making your own homemade baits really pays long term dividends.

You see, no – one else can go to a shop, buy the ‘new’ bait you’ve so been carefully introducing into the water, (to get the fish to feed confidently on it) and then have someone else catch the lake’s biggest fish as a result of all your efforts. You will benefit directly from your own unique efforts; and often be rewarded with exceptional and very consistent big fish catches!

Good fishing so often results from good bait – may your baits be more than just ‘the flavour of the month’ in the latest shop bait advertisements!!!

The author has many more fishing and bait ‘edges’ up his sleeve. Every single one can have a huge impact on catches. (Warning: This article is protected by copyright, but reprints with a link are OK.)

By Tim Richardson. ‘The thinking angler’s fishing author and expert bait making guru.’

For more expert bait making information and ‘cutting edge’ techniques see the expert acclaimed new e-book / book:

“BIG CARP BAIT SECRETS!”

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BIG FISH CARP BAITS — Secrets for Making UNIQUE Nutritional Homemade Baits!

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Apr 152022
 

+ Nutritional carp baits or ‘food’ baits are very popular now because they consistently produce big carp again and again! +

The theory of ‘balanced amino acid profile and nutrition’ carp baits, has been repeatedly proven by consistent catches of big carp for decades.

Your baits amino acid ‘profile,’ that is its content, and biological availability of ‘refined’ proteins to carp digestion, is central to your nutritional bait attraction and success. By refining these things in your baits, on the right fisheries, your big fish catches can really become the stuff most anglers only ever dream of…

This is mythical top secret homemade baits become a reality!

The numbers of big carp that get caught on other types of ‘boilie’ baits have seriously reduced especially in the UK and Europe, where angling pressure has become so high. For numerous reasons, other baits will of course always catch plenty of carp.

Now we get to the interesting bit; the effect of a carp’s dietary requirement for individual amino acids. This is a variable between individual fish at any point in time!

There are about 13 ‘essential amino acids’ for carp, and the easy definition is: An amino acid that cannot be synthesized in the carps body from internal resources. Therefore, carp must consume them in their diet to live healthily!

The advantages do not end there. ‘Nutritional’ bait will often contain a ‘complete balanced, nutritional profile,’ including essential fats, minerals, vitamins, trace elements, and salt, which are all proven carp attractors.

The individual components of the bait ingredients work together in the bait itself, and in the carp’s digestion and assimilation processes. This provides the optimal nutritional bait performance, and benefits in the carp’s body.

This multiplies the effect of all the individual bait ingredients for maximized carp attraction, and repeated desire for consumption of your bait.

How do you make your bait release even more carp attracting amino acids? Well, very water soluble, easily ‘digested’ amino acids are supplied in greater quantities by predigesting your baits, using bacterial action or ‘curing’ your baits, or by using artificial enzyme activity within your baits.

You can always add more ‘free’ form liquid amino acids as a bait dip or soak too to really maximize attraction.

To my knowledge, every top commercial bait manufacturer utilizes elements of, or all of these effects! So, if you fish a ‘pay lake’ where it seems most anglers have been using the same shop-bought bait, try applying your new homemade nutritional bait to give a top edge.

Soon, you’ll be the one catching all the biggest carp yourself, although you may need to introduce a very plentiful amount of bait in advance, to get the fish feeding confidently on it.

Such baits can become ‘habit-forming,’ with seemingly ‘addictive’ powers over the carp’s natural caution.

+ A ‘bait triangle’ effect is at work with high nutritional bait:

Initially, this is where many types of fish will sample your bait to begin with, after its first introduction to a water. Different sizes of carp and bigger fish such as bream, tench and catfish will ‘push out’ the competing smaller fish.

As the dietary benefits are experienced by fish eating the bait, the fish which have the largest, energy efficiency and dietary requirements push out the lesser size carp, when the bait is repeatedly introduced over a period of time.

At this stage the largest fish tend to ‘monopolize’ the bait and will eat it in preference to other food and less nutritionally balanced baits.

This is why ‘mixing bait ingredient weaknesses’ is so powerful; you can catch the biggest fish in a lake, in a very short period of time, by the balancing your bait nutrition and by regular feeding of ‘free’ baits.

To use these baits most effectively, the very top successful fishermen keep their ‘free baits’ going into their lake or swim very regularly, and this is especially important in winter fishing. It can require 3 visits to the water every week just to keep the carp searching for bait, feeding confidently on it, and feeling its beneficial effects.

So why bother doing this? Well, this activity can become so productive in terms of catch results; it can actually become addictive as your results just keep improving!

So, it is essential to mix bait ingredients, that have different weaknesses in their essential amino acids distributions; this limits nitrogen loss through ‘deamination’ and provides the best opportunity for protein utilization in the carp.

In the base mix, I prefer to use the highest levels possible of ‘whole protein foods’ ingredients and predigested protein food extracts. I also maximize the levels of ‘free’ aqueous (in solution) amino acids compounds in the bait mix.

A mixed amino acid compound ‘bait soak’ or dip, complete with naturally derived extracts like spices, ‘attractors’ and ‘behaviour stimulators’ like sea salt , hot and red capsicum powders and natural ‘flavours / special amino acid containing components like squid extract, will give your bait more attraction power and range.

The attractive benefits are maximized and enhanced further by important methods that sustain ‘biological-activity’ within the bait. My baits are normally fermented or ‘cured’ too, at the very least, to release further nutrition and enhance carp attraction factors.

Why not try making a nutritional carp bait yourself. Yes, bait making involves making mistakes and ‘trial and error.’ In fact, some of my ‘mistakes’ have led to some of my most productive baits. Owning your secret nutritional carp bait recipe can be a massive catches and confidence booster!

The author has many more fishing and bait ‘edges’ up his sleeve. Every single one can have a huge impact on catches. (Warning: This article is protected by copyright, but reprints with a link are OK.)

By Tim Richardson. ‘The thinking angler’s fishing author and expert bait making guru.’

For more expert bait making information and ‘cutting edge’ techniques see the expert acclaimed new ebook / book:

“BIG CARP BAIT SECRETS!”

http://www.baitbigfish.com

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Make Money Online with Ease

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Apr 142022
 

If you’re reading this, then I assume that you are one of those people who want to make a lot of money without ever having to put on a suit and tie and going to the office. That’s just fine with me because I too have dreamt of financial independence for some time and managed to achieve it by becoming a successful online marketer.

The most important thing that you need to know about affiliate marketing is: content rules”. It’s the first thing you need to keep in mind at all times. If you really want to be successful in this trade then you need to learn how to make your own content and how to come up with quality stuff. Getting surfers to look at your website is not that hard. Making them read more than a couple of lines is a bit harder.

The second most important thing is to gain links that point to your site, which will bounce you up in search engine ratings. Make sure the links are always from web pages that focus on the same topic as the articles they point to, otherwise you are going to lose points with the search engines and that should be avoided at all costs.

So there you have it, the big list of tasks that you need to do in order to become a successful affiliate marketer. Sounds too simple? Well, it sort of is simple, but not as simple as you’d expect. What you need to do is to write good articles that can really answer the questions your readers have in mind. This means finding a topic, becoming thoroughly acquainted with it and analyzing possible solutions.

So go ahead, pick a niche market, identify some topics and start writing. Get about 10 articles up on your website, get links for every one of them and then keep an eye out and see if people like them or not. Every morning re-read one of the articles and see if your writing style is really crystal clear and if the ideas stand out from the text and are easy to grasp by anyone.

After weeks of doing this re-read your first articles once more. I am perfectly sure that you will be surprised of how poorly written they seem. Feel free to re-write them, or to write new ones that focus on the same topics and solutions, but with a different approach and wording. Don’t strive to be 100% original every time because this is impossible.

In a short while you will notice that your site is getting a lot of attention because of the friendly content. Keep everything simple and make sure your pages can be accessed easily by surfers who don’t land on your main page. Having a website that doesn’t look slick, but has loads of good content tells people that you are a real person and that you aren’t trying to pull anything.

Marketing campaigns, flashing banners and slick ads are nice, but you don’t need them. Just write articles and get links. Then write more articles and get more links. Repeat this until your website becomes a mandatory stop for people who want to be well-informed on the topic you’ve chosen. The links and surfer clicks will give you good ratings and the original content will make you unique.

Write good articles, put in plenty of keywords (don’t use them blatantly), make sure the links to the merchant website stand out and get other websites to link to you. That’s all you need to know to make a lot of money on the internet.

These are just a couple of the internet affiliate marketing fundamentals covered in the MakingYouRicher online marketing program. For a fully scaleable and realistic strategy to making money online, visit http://www.makingyouricher.com

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Romantic Ideas for When You Have a Chronic Illness

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Apr 042022
 

“Hot and bothered!” For most people these words create images of being twisted up in sheets, breathlessly reaching out to the one you love. For those with chronic illness, however, “hot” is more likely to refer to one’s thyroid condition, night sweats, or a heating pad on high. “Bothered. . .” Well, let’s just say when your body aches, everything makes you feel bothered: a cat that won’t move off your leg, a joint that continues to throb, and a spouse that is able to snore through minor earthquakes. It can be hard to be romantic!

Nearly 1 in 2 people live with a chronic illness in the U.S. which means that a lot of marriages are disrupted by this uninvited third party of illness, often including mental illness as well. Seventy-five percent of them end in divorce. Romantic ideas don’t have to be used just on Valentine’s Day.

So! How are some ways to get the spark back? Here are some creative romantic gift ideas and ways to say, “I love you.”

If YOU have the chronic illness:

1. Make an effort. Stop with the excuses. “I’m tired, I don’t feel good. I am in so much pain.” I’ve said them all. Guess what? You’ll probably always be tired. Put on some music, sit back and relax. You’re in pain? If you can push past some of the pain you’ll soon be distracted and forget at least a good part of it.

2. Make romance a priority. That means not spending the whole Saturday cleaning your house and then being exhausted. Rest up, even if it’s just so you can have a conversation without falling asleep.

3. Be enthusiastic during your romantic evening. Even if you’re just going out for dinner, don’t say, “I’m doing this just for you. I don’t really feel like it.” (Oh, yeah, that will turn him on.) Smile and talk about pleasant memories or dreams you have. Promise yourself not to talk about your illness for just one night.

4. You don’t have to write romantic love poems. Just put together a mini-album of your favorite photos and include notes about your memories and how much he means to you.

5. Make a list of all the things you notice he does that you don’t usually thank him for: taking out the garbage, getting you medication in the middle of the night, giving your child a bath, cleaning out the litter box. Type out a sheet of all of this stuff in fun fonts and different colors.

6. Get over feeling self-conscious and buy some underwear that don’t look like your grandma’s.

7. Text message him something daring or outrageously romantic that you would have said when you first fell in love—and text-messaging didn’t exist.

8. Give him a home-made coupon for something he would like but doesn’t splurge on very often such as, “Good for 5 guilt-free hours with your friends watching football.” Avoid making him feel guilty whenever he wants to do something you can participate in (like going hiking or riding a roller coaster.)

If YOUR SPOUSE has the chronic illness:

1. Buy her food that she can eat without guilt–even if you have to hunt it down. Did you know chocolate contains phenylethylamine, a chemical that produces the feeling of “being in love”? Look at your pharmacy for Russell Stover’s sugar free chocolate. Starbuck’s just introduced a heavenly new drink, a sugar-free Cinnamon Dolce’. Now that’s romantic!

2. Hold her hand, rub her back, call her a pet name you haven’t used in five years, don’t pressure her for more. Cuddle, snuggle, and cuddle some more like you will never let her go.

3. Tell her all the things you love about her: how strong she is, how much you admire her strength in coping with illness, how you’re sticking around no matter what. Who needs romantic poetry? Speak from the heart!

4. Buy her something she wouldn’t buy herself like a $20 bottle of lotion, a CD she’s mentioned or a rocking chair for the patio. What is something that she could enjoy when she isn’t feeling well? Pamper her.

5. Give her a romantic getaway. In short, take the kids out of the house an entire day and don’t say anything when you come home at 4 p.m. and she’s still in her pajamas.

6. Write her little love notes and hide them around the house. Or give her a romantic card (just because… like 3 days before Valentine’s Day) and write in it, cover one whole panel with your own words.

7. Looking for a romantic dinner idea for staying home? Buy an electric fondue pot and pledge to dip something in candlelight one evening a week and just talk.

8. Need conversation starters? Buy a game such as “To Know You … Better” or buy a book. Just do a search on “book of questions” for dozens of options. There are still a million things you don’t know about each other, and yes, talking does create intimacy.

There is no such thing as a perfect marriage. But a marriage where both people are involved in keeping it alive, despite the existence of a chronic illness, can be one of the most rewarding joys in your life. Romance comes in many forms. I loved my husband more than ever before the night I literally couldn’t move because of a rheumatoid arthritis flare. I “slept” sitting on the couch and he slept on the floor beside the couch to comfort me every time I moved and screamed from the pain.

Love comes in many forms. One of the books I’ve bought all the couples in my life is “Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires, the Respect He Desperately Needs” by Emerson Eggerichs. Men want to feel respected, women want to feel loved. Usually we are offering our spouse what we want—not what they need. Being aware of all of the little things we do each day that give one another love and respect, add up to romance when you least expect it.

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Has The Rich Jerk Out Jerked Himself This Time?

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Apr 032022
 

Copyright Alan Martin Part 2

Hello,

yes, we can install it for you. Our rate for script installation is
$25/hour. Typically, we can install them within about an hour. We
have not installed this particular script in the past, so we’re not
familiar with it, but should be able to get it installed.

Thanks,

Great at last some movement in the right direction so I get on doing what I always do on the internet and that is ask for links from other websites and other stuff which I would not go into just yet.

Then disaster strikes email I received from my server staff

Not enough information about the “Links Information” settings for me but
that information may be of more use to you in installing it yourself
because those settings are not fixed. But if you don’t want to do it
yourself, I suggest corresponding with the script owner about the
proper settings and getting it installed.

Hi, Emir, I have had a word with my website server staff and they say that they are unfamiliar with the installation and wonder if you could install it for me even though they have seen your link.

I know nothing of how to install this script to me the installation looks straight forward if you know how to install php.

So I am asking for your help to install it on my website and will pay whatever you want to get it up and running as it sounds such a great script and one that I have been looking for for such a long time I have looked at countless programs and decided that yours has everything that I am looking for.

Hi Alan,

It’s not a problem. I can do it for you. Here is the info I need from you:

FTP connection settings to your server (i.e ftp url, username and password)
Username and password to a MySQL database on your server.

As soon as I get this info I will install it for you.

Sincerely,
Emir Plicanic

So I send him the details the same night and Waite for his reply

Dear Alan,

I’ve scheduled your BeSeen Installation for January 20. Depending on my schedule I may do it sooner.
No matter what, I will let you know as soon as the installation is done.

Sincerely,
Emir

Dear Alan,

I successfully installed BeSeen on your server.
Your administrator information is: ###############

If you have any other questions please let me know. There is no charge for
the installation, but if you could put up a little text ad on you home-page
I would greatly appreciate it.

Great, just the email I have been waiting for so like a child with a new toy I go straight over to my new log in panel and take a look around it I look at a few things read a few more and in no time I have added a link and then another and so on now I see what all the fuss is about and all the testimonials I read where spot on now I am not sure weather you know much about asking for links off other websites but unless you have a page rank of at least 1 they will not link with you so this is where my website comes in for anyone who would like to start getting free traffic to there website I have a page rank of two and it can only go up with the quality of links I am acquiring and I am willing to link with you to get you on the road to free traffic for no cost just go here now :
And copy my link and put it on your website for those who do not know it must be copied and pasted and then placed into your HTML view and then save page otherwise it will not work.

So I am so made up with the linking script I start to tell everyone who may be interested so I send off a few emails to see who will respond I thought I would tell all the people who send me emails trying to flog me there stuff so I recons that they may be interested in this linking script as its for free NO CHARGE I figured I might get a response this is a copy of the email I sent to the people who send me emails relentlessly.

Hi, Jerk how are you today the weather is very cold but sunny here today and I thought I would let you know that my new linking script is up and running and I have kept a place for you, you can link in any category that relates to any of your websites.

There is a special link code you need on your website and then we are all up and ruining and ready to get great traffic to your website all for free so I have got a copy of the code for you so you can paste it somewhere on your website here it is.

also you can add a link anytime you like when you make another website that you want traffic to test it out here. just go to add a link and click and just follow the easy instructions.

Have a look and see what you think.

Speak to you soon

Yours Alan Martin

And that’s it for part two be sure to check out the next chapter next week it’s a blinder this one you just can not miss ho and by the way go to my website to download your free stuff valued at

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The beauty of online puzzles

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Apr 022022
 

There are many things we can use the Internet today for. We prefer it in order to check out the news, listen to music and even to play. Why play? Because the Internet, though a brand new technology, has the amazing capacity to bring back our old childhood games and allow us to be a child once again.

Puzzles are one of the most popular online games because everyone enjoys playing them. They are a fun way to spend one’s free time and they will always be a part of our past. The Internet has managed to make jigsaw puzzles even more attractive than ever by introducing a variety of photos and different abilities to solve them.

Nowadays, puzzles are played over the Internet by millions of people worldwide and are considered one of the best ways to test one’s intelligence. They are eligible for any generation and in particular for kids. They help them to develop certain skills, especially the ones referring to attention and problem solving.

The various designs and the colorful styles make jigsaw puzzles even more appealing for kids. They take a lot of time in putting them together and learn how to be patient unconsciously. The most important thing is to find puzzles that are fun and not those with images that are boring or too serious. By doing that, you will end up wasting your time and your kid’s while learning nothing. The reason jigsaw puzzles are made that way is to have fun and learn fundamental skills.

Jigsaw puzzles were made for the first time in 1766 by a British man. Today, they do not differ very much from those made back then and are still considered one of the most fun ways to spend leisure time. The fact that they require amazing concentration but do not put any stress on the puzzle solver is great and this is why so many people enjoy playing them.

Probably the guy who invented puzzles would be very content to see the long way his invention traveled. The Internet is the primary source for jigsaw puzzles and there are hundreds of puzzles to make out there. The number of pieces depends on the age of the person solving the puzzles and there are a lot of fun pictures for kids. They can choose images with their favorite characters and also with animals or much other cool stuff.

The possibility to play online games has been welcomed by a lot of people worldwide. Finally, there was a way to stand in front of the computer, in one’s chair and just unwind after a long day at work. Puzzles were enjoyed also by employees who made them in their lunch breaks in order to relax and prepare themselves for the long hours to come.

Jigsaw puzzles are especially great for kids. They provide them with a challenge and some kids even develop a true passion for them. They use online jigsaw puzzle makers in order to use their own photos and have even more fun while doing them. They have to concentrate, check out every detail and do not give up until they solve them.

There are a lot of people that enter online every day just to enjoy one of the many puzzles available. They have plenty of choices and diverse difficulty levels. They are captured by jigsaw puzzles as they help them to escape the day-to-day routine and remember the fun part of one’s life.

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